Whenever I think hear about things such as these, I try to remember the Cardinal Rule. Do unto others as you would like done unto you.
I can’t imagine anyone who would want the love of their life to be “sealed” to someone else, especially if it holds the distinguished privilege we are meant to believe it does. It’s the same as an emotional affair in my own opinion.
Japanese have a saying, Bachi. It means that what comes around goes around. If you’ve lived long enough, you’ve probably noticed this in your life. I can only believe that if someone does something to hurt another, and that person hasn’t realized what they’ve done or the emotional discord they placed on that person…eventually the law of Bachi will present itself, perhaps in the life after.
I wouldn’t want to have to explain my actions to another and “feel” their pain during my trial with God preceeding over us. Always live by what you would want others to do to you…because that is what it is all about in the very end. That is true Harmony brought on by Love.