[drewe]

trill,

I am very sorry for what you are going through.

I agree with Ray that religious disharmony can be destructive in a marriage. I think the difference between religious difference and religious disharmony is that you can have religious difference and still have a great marriage. While difficult, two members of different faiths can build a solid marriage. But if they have disharmony – meaning they can’t talk about religion or that it leads to arguments – it is very difficult if not impossible to have a strong marriage.

I think the suggestions made by everyone are great. In the end, he may just need time. If that is the case, you have to decide if you can wait and be happy. It sounds like you love him a lot, so trust your heart.

[drewe]

Thanks brother. I am downloading it right now. It sounds like it provides a lot of great insight.

[drewe]

Welcome. I am also a closet hater of the absolute. I hope you stay so there will be more of us

Best wishes and I hope you enjoy the forum. PM me anytime if I can help.

[drewe]

LaLaLove,

I want you to know that you are not alone.

I definitely understand your concerns about the children. I have wondered myself whether I want my children raised in the Church, fearing that they will one day have to go through the trial of faith that I have. But I am now comfortable knowing that if they are taught something I don’t agree with I can be sure to let them know.

Hang in there.

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