[Figuring it out]

swimordie wrote:

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did your wife leave because of the church stuff? If so, you’ll have a long, tough road.

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Well, I don’t know for sure… she says it’s because of everything. When I am fixing one set of stuff about me, she then adds in the church stuff. I want to believe it’s things I can fix; but people who have been around the block tell me I’m not the one who broke things and only the person who broke things can fix it. And that person doesn’t seem to want to fix it. So, I think she doesn’t like the church issues; but they’re just an excuse to give her an out. If she really loved me, it wouldn’t matter. I can see that now that I’ve read some posts here of women who’s husbands have similar stances as mine. And it’s actually painful to read and see what I don’t have.

[Figuring it out]

pinkpatent wrote:

Hello,

I will never divorce my husband, who is a good man. But I also want to make sure that our marriage is as good as it can be. Just staying together is not good enough, I want to us to be happy.

I wish my wife felt the same about me as you do about your husband. He is a lucky man.

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