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So this is probably not helpful in any way, except to let you know others feel like you do….

I HATE visiting teaching! I don’t like having someone pretend to care about me because they think they have to, nor do I want to be the pretender. I don’t like having to pretend to be something I”m not for my visiting teacher or when I go out! I have a very bad atitude about VT, and I know it, so I approached the RS Pres and told her I did not want to be a VT anymore, and I did not want VT’s to come to me anymore. I assured her that this has nothing to do with my VT’s, my partner, or the people I VT. I know I have a bad attitude and I don’t want to go, but I don’t want to affect the blessings of my partner or my VT’s by not going, or avoiding phone calls. I told the RS Pres all of this and she said…”well, you will probably lose your temple recommend…” WHAT! I was livid, I’m going to lose my temple recommend by being honest vs. lying about going, or just not going? The RS Pres, sat me down like we were in a Bishop’s interview and told me she was afraid if she let me out of this, they would lose me completely…oh yeah, that’s going to be the reason! We left things kinda unresolved, but the VY coordinator is still calling me, and my VT’s called last week, so I guess I’m still in. Now the RS Pres and the whole Presidency treat me differently. But, will NOT be going Visiting Teaching anytime soon, believe me. And if I’m going to lose my Temple Recommend, well I guess I will have to discuss that with the Bishop, doesn’t matter, I don’t have one anyway, it expired and I haven’t felt like getting it renewed…but that’s another post…

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