[Jacobeee]

Welcome,

I have set in on several church courts and all I can say is that the outcomes are not consistent and that not all the members of the council feel the same. The BP or SP have the final say, which makes sense and the others on the council are just asked to support that decision. It makes for some uncomfortable meetings. I know it is hard for you right now and to have a faith crisis on top of that makes it worst. My heart goes out to you. It is good to own up to your mistakes and it takes a lot of courage to confess to others. It is great that your wife loves and supports you and maybe for awhile just concentrate on that and try not to let the other things bring you down too much. Just take care of yourself and remember your own worth. You know if your are a good person or not. I don’t know if that helps but please know that we are not too iudgemental here and hopefully you won’t feel so alone.

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