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  • in reply to: What Essays Would You Still Like To See #192893
    LookingHard
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    Daeruin wrote:

    Emotion vs the spirit


    Hmmm. I don’t know about that one. I would have to pray about it and see if it feels right. :-)

    in reply to: New Seminary Teacher Requirements: Good News #192912
    LookingHard
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    I am in the “it is about time” and lots of thinking about how much of this is coming from pressure to change.

    in reply to: Chieko’s Corner #189819
    LookingHard
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    Thanks mom!

    (been wanting to say that one for a bit) :)

    in reply to: What Essays Would You Still Like To See #192890
    LookingHard
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    Heber13 wrote:

    – the Church vs the Gospel


    I would read that!

    in reply to: Forsake the Gospel and Lose Your Job #192871
    LookingHard
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    Hawkgrrrl, Was your sister good at math? (I apologize in advance in case my attempt at humor is found offensive)

    in reply to: New Essay on Polygamy! (update, a 2nd one posted also) #192146
    LookingHard
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    ConfusedMolly,

    You are hitting the nail on head of where I am at. I have come to some peace with some of our history, but it has come at the expense of feeling leaders are even generally inspired. I think I would say “maybe occasionally” they are and often they are dead wrong. So when listen to conference and hear GA’s say “we have all the truth, just follow your leaders” I feel they are overspending the level of their inspiration. I have moved from listening and try to start from a position of needing to believe to now starting from “they could be wrong” and seeing if the Lord tells me otherwise.

    I have made a hard distinction between the church and the gospel of Jesus. I used to see them one in the same. Now I would say they can be at times not close to the same. I am feeling that God let’s his church drive a bit like an irresponsible teenager before he corrects it at all. That puzzles me.

    in reply to: Forsake the Gospel and Lose Your Job #192868
    LookingHard
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    Ann wrote:

    Maybe he works in a heavily LDS area, with LDS administrators, bosses, co-workers, and he was worried he would be “let go” once he stepped back from the church. I’m not saying it happens a lot, but I’m sure it happens some. An employer finds a PC way to do it, even if the motivation isn’t.


    I have seen this in my family. Just a divorce was reason enough to lose a very high profile job – and he knew it before hand. So sad.

    LookingHard
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    So true. I do like this site for its signal to noise ratio (hey – I am an engineer)

    in reply to: Just a quick Hello! #192842
    LookingHard
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    You guys need to take this over to ldssexuality.com. :)

    in reply to: Just a quick Hello! #192836
    LookingHard
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    For those that are slow like me, “Be You Tiful” is “beyoutiful” (“beautiful”) split up. I like it.

    in reply to: Just a quick Hello! #192834
    LookingHard
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    1gentlespirit wrote:

    I find it very frightening to be 36 years old and just now figuring that out and I have no idea how to do it!


    You are a Spring Chicken! :-) I am in my 50’s and just figuring out that I need to be more of just who I am and not playing the part I THINK I am supposed to.

    in reply to: "A Confession and an Apology" #192812
    LookingHard
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    Everyone should read this!

    in reply to: Just Taking it a Day at a Time #192656
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    Ann wrote:

    I like to remember the comparison of the church to a walking stick. The church is not the path, it’s the stick that’s supposed to make it possible or easier to walk it. I don’t know if that’s an off analogy, but it’s helped me relax.


    And to carry the analogy too far :-) some people want to beat you into line with that stick. Just (kind of) of joking.

    in reply to: Historical Perspective #192761
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    nibbler wrote:

    Maybe we are fairly clean in this regard because we have people that hold their community to a higher standard.


    Which may be why some are so upset when they feel like church leaders have been suppressing some info as they feel the same leader touts “we cling to the truth”.

    I enjoy the several perspectives on this site.

    in reply to: What about your temple covenants? #192515
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    The example I would use is from my mission when I bought and ate coffee cake for breakfast. The AP visited our apartment, saw the box of “Coffee Cakes” and reprimanded me for breaking the Word of Wisdom. When I explained it is just the name, no coffee in it, he still said, “Well, the appearance of evil, Elder.”


    If I got along with him I would be inclined to say, “I would worry more about the appearance of ignorance”. But it sounds like he was “THE ZL” Sigh.

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