An excellent post! This is exactly describing me and my husband. I am actually going to be baptized into the Mormon Church next month (by my husband). My husband is a life-long member who had been inactive for 25 years, since his mission ended in 1988. He was a buffet Mormon all along and didn’t know it. He thought it was all or nothing, so he had left the church. But he missed aspects of the church and always believed in God and the restored gospel. So now I’m actually going into the Church being a buffet Mormon, and my husband has now become active in the church again and we are both very happy! This site is awesome!